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  • Valentine's Day Gift Guide: Simple, Sexy, Fun Edition

    Valentine’s Day is one of the most complex, pressure-laced holidays, gift-giving wise. You’re set up to believe you can’t just pop off to the market and grab any old thing to take back to your romantic interest.

  • Laura Ingalls is Incredibly Unsexy

    In a few weeks my sister and I are throwing an anniversary party for my parents. My parents are just as odd as I am so we decided to do an old West-Little-House-On-The-Prairie-style party at a Texas fort, complete with a chuck wagon serving supper and a women playing the fiddle into the night around the bonfire. It should be awesome.

  • Strippers Are Sexy

    Gossips love to speculate that strip club visits equal marital doom, whereas I don't think you can infer anything from a strip club visit other than that a guy likes to look at scantily clad women.

  • I Love, Therefore I'm Nuts

    Andrew Shaffer gives us the skinny on the private lives of 37 philosophers, in Great Philosophers Who Failed at Love, all full of various types of affairs, angst, desire, despair and scandal.

  • Why I Hate “It Gets Better”

    In September 2010, pundit Dan Savage started the “It Gets Better” project — a series of videos aimed at informing lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender teenagers that despite the bullying and abuse they were victims of in school, “it gets better” as they grow up.

  • Schmekle: Revolutionary Trans-Core, Jewish, Punk Rock Band

    Schmekel is Yiddish for "little penis" and seems to be the perfect name for a “100 percent transgender, 100 percent Jewish” punk band that doesn't take itself too seriously. The band’s parody punk rock is made for fun but the end result is an act that crosses boundaries and reaches beyond the queer audience you'd expect.

  • Got Rope?

    People are often curious as to why a particular play-style, pervy activity or kind of kink appeals while others leave you cold. I can’t speak for anyone but myself, but I’ll tell you about why I so love bottoming to rope bondage.

  • Top Ten Strangest Things for January

    Every month, tons of strangers send me links to things that cannot be unseen. Then I carefully curate a list of the most WTF links that you probably need to know just to be able to keep up with popular culture references. Think of it as educational.

  • Mr. Sexsmith Says: Don’t Worry, Be Kinky

    Stepping out into the world of dating at the age of 18 is scary enough without adding the worry that your kinks will make people think you're a freak. Mr. Sexsmith offers some sage advice on coming to terms with who you are and building up the courage to step off the dating curb.

  • Tuesdays With Nina: Coping With Painful Sex

    Nothing can be so frustrating as a condition that keeps you from enjoying your favorite sexual position!

  • Sex Educator and Author, Ducky Doolittle

    More than two decades ago Ducky started her career working at a sex shop in New York City’s rough Times Square district. An organic path that started as a temporary job to make ends meet developed into a career she loves. <br> <br>Like Ducky says, “The experience of answering people’s…

    Interview with Sex Educator and Author, Ducky Doolittle
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  • Editor and Author, Delilah Devlin

    Delilah started writing eleven years ago. She and her sister were at the office late at night (as those who had volunteered to stay late that night for their IT company for Y2K) when the two of them discussed where they wanted to be in ten years. Both of them agreed it wasn't in that…

    Interview with Editor and Author, Delilah Devlin
  • Sex Educator and Author, Tristan Taormino

    Tristan Taormino initially didn't know she was going to become a pornographer and sex educator. After her plans for law school fell through, an adviser suggested going into sex education because Tristan's senior thesis was on lesbian sexual identity. That was in 1993, and you can see how…

    Interview with Sex Educator and Author, Tristan Taormino

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